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Kids Online safety
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Iby on 11/04/2009 21:14:00
 
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If You\'re Uncomfortable At Any Time, Disconnect!
Hit the back button on your browser, go to a different Palace or leave         
         the chat room.
Don't give out your real name, your address, your phone number or anything else
that is personal. The person you're talking to may not be what they appear to
be.
Don't share pictures of yourself, your family or your                 home
without your parents permission.
Never respond to chat messages or e-mail that is mean or makes you
uncomfortable. Responding only encourages the person.
Never say anything online that you wouldn't say in public. It IS public!!
Remember that nothing you type on the web is completely private - - even e-mail.
Never give out any of your passwords to anyone but adult members of your own
family. Your Internet provider will never ask for them, neither should anyone
else! It's a good idea to change your passwords frequently.
NEVER EVER Make Plans To Meet With Someone That You\'ve Met Online In Real Life
Without Your Parents Permission. This Is The Biggest Danger You\'ll Face On The
Internet.
The best thing to do is have your parents speak with the other person's parents
and make arrangements to meet in a public place. Be sure to take your parents
along on the first visit.
To avoid misunderstandings, learn to use "emoticons" and acronyms when you chat
or write e-mail.
At times people can't tell if you're kidding, being mean, or really upset when
all the have to go on is your words. Adding these little extras can avoid hurt
feelings and fighting online.
Never type in all capital letters. In e-mail and chat programs it is considered
shouting and can easily start arguments with others.
Remember that what you say and do online can also jeopardize your family's
privacy. Be very careful about giving out personal family information or filling
out forms on the web. Check with your parents first!
So far the tips have been to protect YOU. Please don't forget that it is wrong
and ILLEGAL to threaten, or harass other people in person, by mail or online.
Don't get into trouble by engaging in this sort of behavior yourself.
Get your parents involved. Even if they've used the Internet, you're bound to
know things about it that they don't. Show them your favorite places on the net
and what you do online. It can help them get more out of their online time. If
they're involved from the start, they'll be their for you if you run into
trouble.
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#1
Talk with your kids about what they can and cannot do on the net. Try to be
reasonable and keep in mind their age, needs, interests and curiosity.
#2
Learn everything you can about the Internet. Ask them to show you their
favorite sites, chat rooms and Palaces. Use the net together to plan family
outings such as trips to the movies and vacations. Give them a chance to be the
teacher.
#3
Be open with your kids and try not to blame them when they run into online
trouble. How you respond will be the deciding factor in whether they come to you
with future problems and will teach them how to deal with things on their own as
they grow older.
#4
Research blocking and filtering software before you install it. The            
      programs all work in different ways.
Some of the software blocks sites that are known to be inappropriate for
children. Some keep users from entering certain types of information such as
names and addresses. Some restrict the use of e-mail. They can all usually be
set up with options that you decide are important to your family.
Be aware that NO program can block all things you may find dangerous or
objectionable. Be aware also that some of these programs block sites that ARE
appropriate.
Base your decision on the age of your child and your own family values. If you
decide to filter please rethink your choice occasionally and make sure it is
working FOR your family and not AGAINST it.
#5
Enjoy the time you spend with your kids online. It holds the opportunity for a
vast amount of fun and learning. And that's a great combination!
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